I found a Doctor For Sam!!

It has taken me literally years to find the PERFECT Doctor for Sam.  The Hospice Nurse phoned this Doctor during her last visit and asked this Doctor if he would take on Sam as a patient and he said, "YES".  I quickly made a appointment.  He is the 5th Doctor we have seen, the previous Doctors their EGOS were too blown up for me.  Anyway, this Doctor is caring and loving and gentle and kind.  Everything I require in a Doctor. This Doctor asked the following questions??  "Does your husband mess his pants?" My reply was, "NO".  "Does he pee his pants?" I said, "NO".  When he asked if he forgets to wipe, my brain wanted to protect Sam and say, "no" but I said, "Only a few times".  Of course, this was a bold out lie.  Sam forgets to wipe often, leaving permanent stains on his sheet and comforter and throwing out a few underwear in the process.   Am I protecting Sam or am I protecting myself?